A Little Solemnity on the 49th Day

When a loved one dies and funeral rites are held in Japan, it's not a matter of one ceremony and you're done. Religious services are held over an extended period of time, and one of the milestones occurs on the 49th day after death.

For those who lost their lives in the earthquake/tsunami that struck northeast Japan on March 11, the 49th day is today. In Buddhist tradition, it is believed that it takes 49 days for a soul to make the transition from life in this world to whatever comes next. This is the day for the final good-bye.

Under normal circumstances, there is a wake and then a "departure" ceremony, after which the remains of the deceased person are cremated. The ashes are gathered and placed in an urn, which is enshrined at the home of the next of kin. Once a week, for seven weeks, incense is burned, candles are lit, and prayers are said in front of the urn. Then, on the 49th day, the ashes are taken away for interrment.

Though these are not ordinary times and the circumstances are far from normal, it is still the 49th day.

Please take a moment and remember the ten thousand and more whose lives came to an unexpected end on March 11, 2011.